Dear FIVIR family, I reached your hands through a relative. After four years of fight for a dream, I felt disappointed and very downcast. I remember my first words with Marita after show her my reports. I said: “ Please, I need you speak to me really clear”. I would like to know my possibilities and my alternatives.
Said and done; never anybody ever spoke to me so clear. My problem was an endometriosis with the consequent premature aging and dysfunction of the ovaries. My best option, an ovodonation.
My illusion of always had been to have a biologic son and another adopted. I wanted know what it is like to live in my womb and give a better life to a Little heart that was already beating. If I considered ovodonation, I had a two in one.
I was offering life to a being that, because of its conditions, never have been born and I could feed it and feel it in my belly. And since being a parents is a matter of two, my guy and I decided that if we wanted to have
a family, it was the best option for us.
The preparations lasted about three months because, my body did not react as expected while Marita encouraged us, she telling us that until everything was ready I did not want to risk, that we had to be patient, that we would leave with our baby.
One day without have time and without to know nothing, Marita say us: Guys, we are ready!
Marita say us: I want you on Wednesday for the spermiogram and to you | wait you on Monday for to make the transfer.
Oh my God! What mix of feelings, nerves, ilusion, expectation…
We was five days ago waiting, Silvia was all the time expecting us and she informed us avery days about our babies. A finally in August 4th was “the day”. During the transfer there was some complications. We didn’t knew why they didn’t want or couldn’t enter babies. Even so, Marita put all her efforts and got to open the way for them.
The week passed normally, I did not felt anything, perhaps, some more accentuated scents, but Little thing. The next week passed bad, between sick and diarrhea.
Days passed… And, when I arrived at the clinic for the test results and I saw to Vicente, I crying disconsolately, I sensed that something was wrong. Confirmed, the result of the analytics was negative. Again another slap.
Not satisfied with the results, in September Marita proposed to us a new test to find the cause of complications. They tested me, I don’t know what is their name and, we discovered that cervix was deviated and, that prevented them from entering with a “Vip“ pass to the babies. It arrived in October 6th and with this “ace up sleeves” Marita Drew a highway to the uterus and transferred 3 embryos successfully.
Well, there was a lazy, but, at the end he also entered, ha, ha, ha…
October 15th at 9:00 am, Vicente welcomes me as always with his smile and, his words of encouragement. Once again I arrived at the analytics test, because three days ago, I had the same symptoms that the last time.
The make me the analytics and, at 10 am. I receive his call.
– “I’m Vicente of FIVIR, I pass to you with Silvia, our biology.
– Ok, I wait to her…
– Hi, I’m Silvia, I have the results analytics. It is positive.
– I can’t to determine how many are but, you are pregnant”.
I can’t listen more, I started crying. I was in the street, people looked to me but, I was indifferent, Silvia on the other side of the phone was telling to me: Calm down…! ; That, in my state was not too good to cry, but at that moment I allowed myself.
Gee…! What a high…!
I had been looking forward to that moment since four long and hard years and, finally positive, we were going to be parents. Simply… I was happy!
Well, what happened later you can imagine. I called my guy to tell him that we were going to be “popes”, he was so happy that dropped his phone from his hands. Ha, ha, ha…!
I spoke with my mother that was waiting my call, she was made a “Bunch of nerves“. She was having a coffee with my father and, for celebrate it, also ask for a “bocata“ for midday. Ha, ha, ha…!
When I tell to my father in law and, my mother in law, was a brust of joy, hugs, tears of illusions…
Finally, FIVIR’s family, this are my days among you. I don’t know how to thank you for making my dreams come true. My baby of nine gestation weeks and me, are very well and father pampered so much both of us.
To you Vicente, thanks for being my tear cloth. Thank you for receiving me always with a smile and make me feel like at home, you are the best, do not change
To you Silvia, thank you for take care of my babies like they were yours and thank you for this wonderful book of my embryos, their were so pretty.
To you Rosa, I haven’t had the pleasure of meeting to you but, I’m sure that you are wonderful.
And to you, Marita, when I was on yours arms, I hadn’t hope and, you get came back my dream. It has been too hard but, it has been worth with efforts. Thank you for give me tips like my mother. Thanks for make real my illusions.
Thanks for give life to this project that name is: Be parents.” -Ángela